I’m not sure how many men tune into my blog, but if you are “black” and you’re reading, this is for you. I didn’t forget about you.
State one thing that you love to do. No matter what it may be. When you do this specific thing, how does it make you feel? Does it make you happy? Does it make you feel sad? Does it make you feel comfortable? Are you alone when you do it? Are you around people? Do you play music when you do it? How often do you do it? Daily? Once a week? Twice a month? Three times a year? Annually? On holidays? Do you tell anyone about it? Who does it affect? Does it even affect anybody? How often do you think about what you love to do?
I know this may seem like an unpopular topic, but who really cares about “black” men? Does anyone ask you how your day was? Does anyone ask you if you need anything? Does anyone ever sit down with you and talk to you in a pleasant manner? Does anyone ever look at you and just smile? Does anyone ever tell you that you’re handsome? Anyone? Your mom? Your dad? Your sister? A stranger? Anyone?
I genuinely want you to feel so comfortable within yourself, so that no one is able to bother you about anything that you do. It’s only a try, but I may actually help someone with this, whether its public or private. Whether I know I helped, or not.
You’re probably wondering why I’m trying to be all up in your business, but I’m not. These questions are honestly something to ask and answer yourself. No matter what kind of day you’ve had, no matter how you feel right now. If you are reading this answer those questions, PLEASE!?
You are loved by someone, even if it’s by me. You will always be loved and someone out there cares about you! Keep making progress. Keep smiling. Keep being nice. We love you!